Don't worry, Mehera, I'm installing eye hooks across all my ceilings!
Thanks so much, Aaron!
For PM's, you need to look to the upper left on the light green menu bar and select User CP. Down the left side of the screen, select Edit Options under the group Settings and Options. In the center of the screen, under Messaging and Notification, is a light-colored box called Private Messaging. The first checkbox enables PM's. At the very bottom of the screen be sure to Save Changes.
I haven't received an e-mail advising of the PayPal charge for the orchid & shipping. What do we do now?