Oh, sorry to hear that Traci! I'm with you on the Phals. I haven't killed mine...yet. But they are tricky as anything, IMO. I'm having better luck w/ a dtps. So far.
Good thing I switched directions and don't have a ton of them left to kill! lol. Go buy yourself a Paph. (or some other lovely thing - one of L's Sharry Babies perhaps?) - it will make you feel better!