....and the problem is, Chuck? LOL, just kidding. I found myself with about 100 2 years in, so I know how you feel. I, too, am spending too much time watering; more than I want to spend. So I put a lot of them into s/h which helps a little.
But, I think that one advantage of having a bunch of plants is that you stress less about minute details of any individual plant. And there is always some change to observe. And you relax a little because you have lots of plants to see what "healthy and normal" looks like.
But, I am putting a cap on their numbers for now, and have even found new homes for some extras and those that I found I'm not into or don't like my conditions.