Unfortunately, Gavin, it may be a while before you feel rested. And it gets worse before it gets better. But it's all worth it! I hope you and your wife have some support to help out, besides all our thoughts and prayers!
I really wish you the best. The next years will fly by and suddenly you'll be wondering where they went. I know that the best thing in life I did was my daughter, and I'm forever blessed by her. I pray you and your wife enjoy your child as much as I do mine (and she's a grown woman now, nearing the ripe old age of 30!).