Well, my kids are young enough they don't care. My daughter is learning how to enable me. My MIL is not at all thrilled but becoming resigned. Hubby is semi supportive. We have some very good friends of the family that have kind of adopted my kids as their grandkids. They are VERY well off. He knows my first orchid show is tomorrow and sent me money to help me "expand my interest"!!!! Gotta love it.