Great!!! Lots of good reading - thanks for the links. My first two dends are on the way - looking forward to learning their culture also. Guess Hoa's "gentle tug" got me too!
And yes, my name is Tami - years of dylslexic fingers mutated it to Tmai in informal e-mails. So forgive if I transpose! Besides, it keeps my cajun relatives on their toes.
Cheers! (Now ya'll done got me repeat'n dis)