Jon, that's a great question.
On some crosses, which parent carried the capsule and which contributed the pollen makes a huge difference in the quality of the progeny and what particular traits get expressed. On other crosses, it makes absolutely no difference at all. It's really easy to think that mixing genes is like mixing colors; combine yellow and blue and you'll get green. Obviously genetics isn't like that; combine yellow and blue with yellow as the pod parent and you might get a blue field with yellow spots; make blue the pod parent and you may still get a blue field with yellow spots. Or, you may get a dull, overwhelming "bronze" because something recessive in both parents just became dominant by simply making blue the capsule-carrier.
It just depends on what particular plants you're crossing, and unless the cross has already been made, there's really no way to tell beforehand what's going to happen or if there'll be any difference until someone just tries it and sees. To complicate matters, different *clones* of the same parents can also express very differently. I wish I could give you specific examples to illustrate but I'm drawing a blank right now. I'll post back when something "orchidaceously concrete" comes to mind....