Getting rid of pests, especially mealies takes a lot of time and effort. If you don't have the time to pursue eradication, then starting over may be a good option for you. Sometimes disposing of badly infected plants and then concentrating on those less affected may help. Years ago I did that with a plant that came back from a show infected with scale . The infestation spread to a lot of plants, but to a lesser degree than the original source. That plant wasn't particularly dear to my heart so it was discarded. I almost did lose another plant I really liked, but ultimately it survived and I still have it. The rest of the plants did fine. I wish you luck in your decision.
Susan