Yes I know the feeling .... been there before and those unfortunate incidents discourages me and sometimes make me want to end my orchid hobby altogether and make me face the mirror and say to myself, "You fool ...!".
Unfortunately despite the occasional bad incidents (which I have kept at a very low rate so far), I'm an orchid nut by heart and even if I've abandoned my desire for orchids momentarily, after a few days I'm back at it again. Looks more like an addiction? Is this normal? Hmmm .... I guess a lot of us in this forum aren't .... LOL! Darn orchid fever.